If we had all the answers to all the questions, where would the fun be? Life was meant to challenge, excite, sadden, frustrate and perhaps all at the same time.

When times are uncertain or we lack clarity or even ideas, it is only natural to ask for advice from those we trust. This comes easier to some than others. Asking for help makes us feel vulnerable. Asking for advice shows wisdom.

Think of the people you know who you trust and value. If you asked them for advice or suggestions, might they have some words for you? They have lived through experiences different from yours. They have viewed it through a different lens. This offers wonderful perspective.

I had coffee with two women yesterday. Each were asking for advice and I gladly and freely gave my thoughts. They both expressed surprise at my suggestions because they had never thought in quite the same way I did.

We have filters that sometimes prevent us from seeing some options, that is why we should look to others for their unique perspectives. We may not always agree but having options is better than feeling hopeless or helpless.

The Wall Street Journal has asked several job seekers to blog about their job search. You can read about each person's experience and perhaps learn something that might help you. Here's the link .